Why Siblings Matter

Anna Brooker

From: Christian MarketPlace – November 2005

Brooker explores the nature and importance of ‘horizontal’ relationships between siblings and how they can strengthen families. There are plenty of biblical examples throughout, including sibling rivalries such as Cain and Abel, Jacob and Esau, Joseph and his brothers, showing that things aren’t always easy. But it also shows the importance Jesus placed on sibling relationships amongst his first disciples: Simon and Andrew, James and John. The eight chapters, it is suggested, could form the basis of a home group or reading group and this is a book which lends itself to being discussed in groups rather than contemplated alone.

From Northsound Radio, May 2004

I suspect that few of us ever consider the impact and influence of siblings on family members and relationships, so readers will find that this book illuminates some often obscure facets of family life. Eight chapters explore the stages chronologically in a way that would be ideal for group study as well as private reading. Indeed it would provide a very suitable basis for a parenting course. Contemporary issues are linked to relevant biblical stories which feature relationships and parallels are drawn. Each section has a few ‘Growth Point’ questions to stimulate discussion and ends with a brief, reflective quotation. Her whole approach is well reasoned and relevant and could be very helpful to Christian parents trying to raise a family in our complex society.

From Home and Family, Summer 2004

Anna Brooker's book offers a charming and personal insight into the rarely covered subject of sibling relationships. Brooker draws upon her family and work life experiences to provide thoughtful anecdotes and biblical reflections that examine the importance of these relationships for individuals and their families.

Why Siblings Matter covers different stages of family life, from parents’ relationships to the dynamics that evolve as families grow. The book has been designed to be read by individuals or considered in group settings, providing an ideal and accessible resource for parenting for discussion groups.

Brooker uses a series of reflections to highlight the timeless relevance of the Bible’s teachings for the family in today’s society. Church, individuals and communities are encouraged to support and nurture all types of families, and the book provides us with guidance and practical tips on how to do this as we build relationships and manage the challenges and joys of family life.

Rachel Barber

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